Emotional Warfare

By Adam Dachis

How to Combat Emotional Warfare and Root Out the Manipulative, Abusive People in Your Life

Everyone's capable of being a jerk now and then, but a select few seem to have adopted the behavior as a lifelong career. Perhaps its an undermining coworker, a jealous friend, or a controlling boss that's the source of your frequent emotional abuse. Regardless of the situation, it's time to put a stop to it now. Here's what to do.
A few personal experiences of my own have taught me a fair amount about dealing with abusive people, but I'm not a professional. Roger S. Gil, on the other hand, is a marriage and family therapist who has plenty to say about getting out of an abusive situation. I spoke with him to learn about the telltale signs of manipulation and abuse and how to fight back when you find yourself a victim. With Roger's help, we're going to take a look at how you can easily detect the signs of emotional warfare and how to deal with the problem so that you can live a happier and healthier life.

How to Detect the Signs of Emotional Warfare

While it's easy to recognize when we're in a problematic situation, we're often reluctant to label it as (emotional) abuse. That's a strong word, and so we generally justify the behavior as just a negative personality trait or two. In this section we're going to look at a few common traits and strategies that are common with emotionally abusive people.

They Exploit Your Sympathies

If you ever want someone to do something for you, it's very simple: make them feel like you desperately need their help. Master manipulators will play on your sympathies because they know it's one of the simplest ways to get what they want. Even if you know you're being manipulated, it's very hard to turn someone away who appears desperate. If they've successfully deceived you in the past by exploiting your good nature, you know what kind of person you're dealing with. Don't let this behavior continue.

They Conceal Evil in Altruism

The difference between good and evil is often intention. When an abusive person does something bad, it's easy to spin that bad thing into a positive by trying to convince you they did it for a good reason. Perhaps a coworker took credit for one of your ideas but claimed to cover for you because your boss thought it was stupid. In reality they likely just stole the idea for their own benefit, but when conveying the outcome to you it sounds like they took a bullet on your behalf. You'll have a hard time proving what really happened because if they're telling the truth you'll end up looking bad and if they're lying you'll look petty to your boss. Either way you lose and you can't know either way. You can feel when someone is really watching out for you. When you have doubts, it's likely manipulation. Watch out for concealed altruism. It plays on your doubts and puts you in a stalemate. If you encounter this behavior, aim to put a stop to it immediately.

They Play On Your Guilt

Guilt is an awful sort of thing that punishes good people and ignores the bad. We feel guilt because we don't want to hurt others. People who don't care—the type that will conduct emotional warfare—know you feel this way and will exploit it for their own gain. For example, they may ask you to take care of something for them. Perhaps you have plans one night but they claim to have an emergency and need you to come over/help them with work/babysit/whatever nonetheless. They'll beg and plead and try to convince you how awful things will be if you don't help them, all the while ignoring the impact it will have on you. If this happens, remind them of that impact and do not help them if they're the type to never return the favor.

They Charm You When You're Upset

Few people are going to let themselves be manipulated by a dull, boring individual. Most abusive people are able to do what they do because they're charming. If you confront their behavior or argue with them, they'll pull out that charm to make you feel important and loved. This is a kind of misdirection that will stop you from thinking too much about why you're mad and remembering all the things you like about them. By the time you're done talking, you'll have a smile on your face and the problem won't have been discussed at all. If this happens, you were being manipulated.

How to Deal with an Abusive Person In Your Life

If those common signs sound like someone you know, it's time to confront the situation head-on. First, you have to figure out what to do. Here are the steps you need to take.

Recognize That the Problem is Them, Not You

First things first: you need to accept that there's a problem. We often make excuses for the abusive people in our lives because they're not just abusive—they have good qualities, too. The bad stuff is hard to quantify and so it's easier to try and shove it under the rug. Roger suggests that we recognize that it isn't just a problem for us, but a serious issue for the abusive person as well:

Manipulation, exploitation, and other worthy-of-a-soap-opera-character behaviors are often indicators of the kinds of traits that make up a personality disorder diagnosis. (Note: not all people who exploit, manipulate, or demean have a personality disorder.) Barring
any type of equally-maladaptive behavior on your part that might have provoked said person's "wrath", being the target of these types of behaviors probably means that the "mean person" likely has more issues than Sports Illustrated.

Generally, this means your sympathies are misplaced. Often times a manipulative individual will play on your sympathies—as we previous discussed—and you'll feel bad for them because of one of many specific hardships that seem to turn up like clockwork. Instead, have compassion for the likelihood that they're very troubled individuals. You may find that your relationship with this person needs to be severed, but that doesn't mean there must be hate between you. Understanding that it 1) isn't your fault and 2) they're dealing with serious problems of their own helps provide much-needed context to this rough situation.

Assess Your Relationship with the Person and Weigh the Outcome of Addressing the Issue

Some people are worse than others, and sometimes you come across abusive people in situations that are particularly difficult to get out of. Before you go and sever your relationship with an individual or resign yourself to misery you need to assess the damage your actions may cause. Roger elaborates:

If your boss is the one manipulating you, exploiting you, etc., then you may have to weigh the pros and cons of taking matters into your own hands (although I'm always one to advise people to put an end to these behaviors by any means necessary). When you address the issue in these types of relationships, you run the risk of provoking more harm to yourself because the person has power over you. If you can't tolerate the treatment, however, then you may have to bite the bullet and do something. If it's someone with whom you have a social relationship (e.g. family or friend), then you can probably be a little more assertive. Nonetheless, you still need to exercise caution because anyone with the power to cause you emotional harm can probably make your life somewhat difficult. Proceed with caution, but if the person is causing a great amount of distress you will need to address the situation head-on.

Basically, consider the angles before you move forward. If there's a problem, deal with it, but think about what you're going to say and do before you make your approach. A fallout may be inevitable, but you can often mitigate the damage by simply being prepared.

Be Direct and Consistent in Your Confrontation

When you accuse an emotionally abusive individual of wrongdoing, it's rare that they'll readily admit that you're right. If you've been holding off on this confrontation, chances are you're going to go into the conversation a little nervous. As a result, it might become pretty easy to derail you. Roger suggests that you need to be as clear as possible and be consistent with what you're saying:

I find it helpful to clearly identify what specific behaviors the person is doing that are bothering me and letting them know how they make me feel. Then I follow it up with a demand to change the behaviors. Example: "The fact that you always ring my doorbell at breakfast time makes me feel like you're only using me for my bacon. I would appreciate it if you came over after breakfast or come over with your own bacon." This may sound a little fake, but it keeps charged emotions to a minimum and keeps you from stooping down to their level. Also, be aware that some people's "reality distortion field" (therapists like to call them "cognitive
distortions") may lead the person being addressed to deny that anything is amiss. Example: "What are you talking about, I come over to see you. It just so happens that you're always making bacon when I come over." As a result, it's vital that you 1) stick to your guns, 2) keep your cool, and 3) keep the discussion moving.

Chances are that you've thought about the problem at hand and the resolution you'd like, so don't let yourself be deterred by a manipulative argument. This isn't an everyday conversation—you're providing an ultimatum in a calm, cool, and collected manner. The recipient of this ultimatum may try to make you feel guilty for your actions, or just that they're compeltely unwarranted, but remember that you're having this conversation because of that kind of behavior. If you stay on your message and keep a level head, you should be able to make it clear that the unwanted behavior will not be tolerated going forward.
If you've decided you need to sever a relationship it's generally best to be brief and not leave much room for discussion. Doing so just opens up the possibility for argument and further abuse. It's hard to reduce a long relationship with another human being—even a bad one—to a brief moment, but ultimately it's better than falling into an emotional battle that will leave you feeling far more hurt.

Ordinary Evil People

In the course of life we come across and meet many people. Some we form friendships with and others we avoid. We often keep the people that make us feel good as friends, and the ones that make us feel bad we keep our distance. The problem is that evil people know full well how to make us feel good and how to manipulate us so that they can gain power and control over us.

There are two types of people we need to avoid. The aggressive and the passive aggressive types. The aggressive types use anger to control you. You go along in order to get along. They always get their way because we don't want them to explode on you and ruin the day. But then we get so angry and frustrated because we never stand up for ourselves. Because of this a wife may allow herself to be totally controlled and manipulated by the husband while blaiming herself for all the domestic problems. "Oh if I just had not dropped the dish Frank would not of flipped. I am so stupid!" The husband then uses this by saying, "You should be thankfull I married you because no one else would have you!" Men that beat their wives while convincing them that they disserved it and they had better smarten up. The solution would be for the wife to muster up her courage and confront her husband so that they can he can then have a bad day. From that point on they will avoid the wife will be in control. But if the husband is violent and physically abusive, then this solution could be very dangerous and volatile. I think most professionals would advise the woman to pack up and leave for a shelter.

The passive aggressive types do not confront you or explode with anger. What they do is to subtly push your buttons until you explode and yell. At this point they play the victim and may cry. They say things like, "Why are you so angry." They manipulate us into thinking it is our fault so that we feel guilty. Once we feel guilty, then they use this to control us.

Example: Husband is up in the morning before the passive aggressive wife who likes to sleep in. Often he makes too much noise in the kitchen and the wife becomes very annoyed. She will never confront her husband about it and gets back at him by offering to make toast. When she does she deliberately burns it to get even with him. But he knows her well and gets angry with her. He knows she did it deliberately The wife then goes into playing the victim. "I made an effort to get up and make you toast and you yell at me." The reason her husband is yelling at her is because he knows she did it on purpose. She begins to cry and the husband feels bad. But the next morning the same thing happens.

The problem is that the wife will never tell her husband what is really bothering her. Why is because she is totally self-absorbed with her own needs and knows nothing about love and communication. She does not love him and just wants her husband to do everything for her no matter what. She needs constant attention and pampering as if she was Cleopatra Queen of the Nile. She wants the best of everything and yet is still never satisfied.

So there are two examples of evil people. The aggressive ones are easy to spot, but the passive aggressive types are much harder to detect because they can appear to be so loving and caring, but this is a mask they wear. A spider is always loving and caring when it is trying to lure the fly into the web. The fact is that they are so self-absorbed that they become the center of their universe and a god of their world in which they expect us to bow down to them and cater to their every need. One way of spotting them is to keep your ears open for negative comments they may make. Inside they feel everyone is useless. The ones that deserve them are the ones that serve them.

A snake is always nice to the mouse until the trusting mouse gets too close and then BANG! Two fangs in the neck. Now the snake may show great remorse for what he has done. He my cry and say that he considered the mouse to be his little friend. But the problem is the the snake will do the same thing over and over again. Why is because he is a snake, and that's what snakes do. It is there nature. Sometimes a mouse my jump back and escape. Then the snake sobs and says how sorry he is. He says "please forgive me! I don't know what came over me?" The mouse falls for the tears and is then bitten and swallowed whole. Then the snake hates himself for eating him, but he is a snake and that is what he does. There are people all around us that manipulate and destroy us because that is what they do. They may cry and feel bad about it, but if you fall for the tears, then say good bye to a happy life. You will be caught in their web of evil and they will not be happy until they suck the life out of you!

Dear Parent Blamer,

Firstly let me say, stop it.

It’s pathetic and pointless. And for the rest of us innocent bystanders… very annoying.

To be completely honest, we’re sick of your whining, your complaining, your anger, your victim mentality and your inability to see that your current attitude (not some historical event) is your biggest problem. We’re also sick of you blaming your (current) bad behaviour on your parents. What’s standing between you and success right now is YOU. Not your folks, not your history… you. And the fact that you think THEY have sabotaged your life and are somehow responsible for your (current) stupid behaviours and less-than-desirable outcomes, wreaks of denial, immaturity and delusion.

 

Yes, we all get that your childhood, or parts thereof, sucked – welcome to the world’s largest club.

We also get that your old man was periodically a completely insensitive, uncommunicative *%#@* at times. Sadly, that’s what (many) fathers do. And yep, we know that your mother was a selfish cow that time when you were in the eighth (and ninth and tenth) grade; it happens.

Okay, let’s be honest and blunt… some parents are poop. And yes, many of us have been hurt – physically, emotionally and/or psychologically – by our parents. I am not suggesting that you deny your past, but I am suggesting that you don’t live there. It’ll kill you. In ten different ways. Some people have been inhabiting the seventies and eighties and re-visiting their childhood for the last few decades.

No matter how much you think your parents deserve your anger, vitriol and resentment, I’m telling you (1) it serves no positive purpose (2) it will hurt you more than them (3) stop being a big, immature, stupid baby and (4) you and only you, are responsible for your current reality – no matter what your parents have or haven’t done to you, or for you.

Even though you may have a very good ‘reason’ to be eternally pissed at your folks, I’m saying let it go anyway. Move on. And it’s not about what they do or don’t deserve; it’s about what you deserve. If you want to destroy your potential, your enthusiasm, your optimism and your hope, then become a chronic Parent Blamer. Hang on to that hurt, no matter what!

Or you could let me save you some serious time and pain and just believe me when I tell you that being a Parent Blamer is a pointless, destructive, pathetic waste of your potential and emotional energy. And if you’re not careful, a waste of your life. It will destroy you from the inside out. It’s true; some people will die angry, bitter, resentful and tortured souls because they never found a way to let go of the self-perpetuated – yep, read that clearly, self-perpetuated – misery. When you’re still desperately holding on to emotional crud from years ago, it’s YOU that’s the problem. When you’re twenty five, thirty five or fifty five and you’re still thinking, talking and behaving like a teenager who’s mad at their parents, you need a big reality check.

The only thing you can change about the past, is how you let it affect you now.

You may wanna read that again.

Over the years I have worked with people who have blamed their parents for everything from their poor communication skills, dysfunctional relationships, destructive habits and violent behaviours, to their fat body and poor eating habits. What!!! Do you not have a brain in your head? Are you incapable of independent thought? Can you not make your own decisions, choose your own behaviours and be responsible for your own existence? Surely you feed yourself these days? Surely you have some control over what comes out of your mouth? And surely you can choose to do, be and create different in your world.

Perhaps your parents taught you how not to be?

Let me say that I totally understand that your parents weren’t always what they should or could have been for you as a child (caring, supportive, forgiving, understanding, loving, available, guiding, honest). You have my sympathy and understanding but you’re not alone. You’re in a very large majority. The problem with parents is that they’re flawed and that whole ‘being human’ thing kind of gets in the way of parental perfection. If only parents were cyborgs.

Today’s article is the result of an inordinate amount of recent conversations I’ve had with people who are hell-bent on blaming their parents for every aspect of their own miserable and dysfunctional existence. Sometimes the vitriol, the anger, the resentment and dare I say, the absolute hatred, that people hang on to (for decades) amazes and saddens me.

The parental blame game is a slippery slope of self-pity, self-destruction and futility that’s played by far too many people to their own detriment. It’s a game you’re advised to avoid.

-Craig Harper

How Does Satan Attack Churches?

To set the foundation, in answer to our question, we must define who the enemy really is and his tactics. First of all, the enemy is Satan, the fallen angel who wanted to take away God’s Glory. Secondly, after Satan was punished and cast to the earth, he set out to destroy God’s glory through Adam and Eve. Satan deceived Eve, and Adam fell into sin. Satan is described in John 8:44, "Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it."

Likewise, the book of Revelation 12:9 says, "And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him." From these two verses, we find the essence of who Satan is, and also his tactics, that he deceives, distracts and divides the church. This is the way Satan attacked churches in the New Testament and still today.

The first tactic that Satan uses is deception. This plan of Satan goes all the way back to the Garden of Eden. The word means to "T

take aside, to ensnare" (American Dictionary of the English Language Noah Webster, 1828.) John writes in Revelation 20:3, "And cast him into the bottomless pit, and shut him up, and set a seal upon him, that he should deceive the nations no more, till the thousand years should be fulfilled: and after that he must be loosed a little season." The deception spoken of here continues up to the Thousand Year Reign of Christ.

Satan’s deception is a primary goal. Satan deceived the church as illustrated in Romans 1:25, "Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator..." Satan got the Church of the New Testament to get away from truth, as Jesus said, that devil was the father of lies.

We see this deception illustrated in Peter’s life. Peter got mixed up over circumcision and salvation, and meats sacrificed to idols. Much of all the epistles in the Bible are correcting bad doctrine that derived from deception. Today we see the church deceived from the truth of the effectiveness of the Bible in society, the clarity of the Gospel, the worship of entertainment verses the love of the Truth.

The second tactic that Satan uses is that he distracts the churches. After Satan deceives, then he distracts the church. We see this in the book of Corinthians. The people got wrapped up in who they were to follow, as see in 1 Corinthians 1:12-13, "Now this I say, that every one of you saith, I am of Paul; and I of Apollos; and I of Cephas; and I of Christ. Is Christ divided? was Paul crucified for you? or were ye baptized in the name of Paul?" Both I and II Corinthians deals with one distraction after another, whether it was tongues, or the seats at church, or the Lord’s Supper which all seemly distracted the church of Jesus Christ.

When Satan effectively deceives and distracts he renders God’s army ineffective. As he did in the books of Corinthians, and in 2 Timothy 2:26 the Word of God states, "And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will." I have observed over the years that Christians are backsliding from the Lord at alarming rates. When only about 40 percent of those who are born again go to church, and of those 40 percent, only about 10-20 percent of those actually gives of their Time, Talents, and Treasure in the ministry or the battle for the Lord to win the lost. It is evident that Satan is having a hay day with Christians.

Don’t get me wrong. Satan surely is deceiving the unsaved, but honestly, he really already has them. Christians belong to the Heavenly Father. Satan’s attack on God’s people is his priority because he renders good Christian soldiers ineffective in the battle, which is waged against God. S

Satan roams this earth laughing at his victory over us as Christians, not really seeking to kill us, but just to wound us. You may ask like I did, "Is this really true?" Let me illustrate. A captain of an army once said, "that he would much rather wound an enemy than kill them." That puzzled me, but his explanation made a lot of sense. He said, "If you wound a solider, then three soldiers are actually taken out of the battle because there is the one that is wounded, and then there are the two other soldiers who have to carry and care for the wounded." Satan is working hard on God’s few soldiers that he has to render us unfit for battle, wounding us and getting us out of the real battle, which is reaching the lost and glorifying our Heavenly Father. Much of ministry is caring for the wounded in the church who has been deceived and distracted from the real battle.

Lastly and consequently, Satan’s tactic is to divide. Everyone knows that the strong army must unite. As we saw illustrated in the Corinthian church, the divisions were rampant. "For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it" (1 Corinthians 11:18). Likewise, in Galatians 1:6-7: "I marvel that ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the grace of Christ unto another gospel: Which is not another; but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the gospel of Christ."

Satan’s tactic of dividing the church in the New Testament over issues that were non-essentials was effective in side tracking the church. Divisions get us fighting ourselves, rather than focusing on Satan and his powers. He divided the church over communion, widows, meats, and over anything he could, so the attention was not given to him. Satan still does this same tactic today. The church today is distracted by numbers in pews, rather than lives for Christ, doctrinal polity, worship wars, generational differences, and scores of other things.

In conclusion, Satan has no new tricks; he deceives, distracts, and divides God’s people. We need to be aware and see these tactics from Satan in our churches, and make sure that they are not evident. We need to get in the real battle, to win souls and glorifying the great Saviour.

Jerry W. Beaver

Your Brain Stops Developing At The Age Drug Use Begins. "Camp Kekoa" Continues To Prove This Point

GENERATION X-POSE

Doug McBurney said...
Earth to Danielle... you know it's rude to just ignore someone when they've asked you a serious question. What could possibly lead you to believe someone at DBC turned you in to CPS?
2/21/2012

Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...
Hey mcnugget. Isn't it enough you were embarrassed before about communicating with other men's wives? Never learn do you? You will, but not before that ego fails. Take a walk, princess, before your feelings get hurt....again. And take your boyfriends with you.
2/21/2012

Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...

Mcnugget's one of those "losers" who didn't provide a character reference letter for CPS when it was requested, same with Enyart and Duffy, Enyart's favorite soft tissue catamite. Mcnugget wanted to debate the issue, instead, as if he was someone important. As for Schofield, the comic book writer, well, we didn't ask him for anything, but for some reason he can't keep his mouth shut like mcnuggs. Schoff must think he's important, too. Eh. But "pain and chaos"? Sweet. Sweeeeet. Thanks for sharing...now get lost, sweetie, and take that great prayer with you.

2/21/2012

Doug McBurney said...

I called you to discuss CPS. You didn't call back. How can you expect me to write a character reference when you refuse to communicate? Besides, I didn't know what was going on in your home, and would not vouch for you. And apparently that was the wise choice, 'cause you're obviously mentally ill or deranged, or on more than just a little weed.

 

...And stop with the veiled threats Curtis, it's not funny, and I'm not some liberal puke that you can push around. I'll only warn you this once to cut it out and be civil.

2/21/2012

ROTFLMAO said...

@Doug McNugget:

HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA!

HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA!

2/21/2012

 Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...‎*"Doug McBurney** I called you to discuss CPS. You didn't call back. How can you expect me to write a character reference when you refuse to communicate? Besides, I didn't know what was going on in your home, and would not vouch for you. And apparently that was the wise choice, 'cause you're obviously mentally ill or deranged, or on more than just a little weed.

And stop with the veiled threats Curtis, it's not funny, and I'm not some liberal puke that you can push around. I'll only warn you this once to cut it out and be civil.

Huh? Only "warn [me] this once," Mcfly? Or else what? You're gonna lie some more? Oh no! Call social services on us? Go ahead, they're expecting your call. Want the phone number, too? Go ask Enyart; he’s had it since last September. Actually, you're gonna do nothing. That's what. Talk about a "veiled threat." BIG MOUTH, no substance.

"He who guards his mouth preserves his life, But he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction." ~ Proverbs 13:3

Did...did you...did you really say "it's not funny"? Really?
Hahahahahahahahah!

Oh, no, Mcmuffin, it's about as funny as ever, very funny, especially with that lil' limp-wristed comment of yours. Thank you, and *boo hoo* - I feel you. Honestly, it was like manna from heaven for all of us who know that you're an empty skirt and have been for some time. Lots of folks have been *ROTFLMAO*, but I'm too "mentally ill" to understand what that means. Besides, I've been way too distracted rolling on the floor laughing my ass off for the last few days after seeing your weakness be put into YOUR OWN words. Ha! It's way too funny, sister. Way too funny, indeed.

I told you to "Take a walk, princess, before your feelings get hurt....again." But noooo, like a glutton for punishment or that infamous dog who keeps returning for more vomit, you keep blowing that mouth off pretty hard to the point where *it's no longer funny* wah wah, that you're "not some liberal puke that you can push around." Actually, you are a coward, and I am easily pushing you around with nothing more than "mentally ill” words. Ha ha. Yeah, it’s easy because you're a cyber-bully that nobody likes, but everybody likes it when a bully gets his. How does it feel, Mcnutt? It's pretty funny, and people are liking it, trust me. It was probably pretty *funny* when you were cyber-bullying other men's wives, eh? *pushing* them around like *pukes*: "Earth to Danielle." "Only losers run away." Remember that, coward? Apparently, when a man actually calls you out for the sissy that you are, all the sudden "it's not funny" anymore... I beg your pardon? But that's what cultists do, like your *pastor*, you go after the wives because you can't handle it when a man confronts you about being a coward...and a hypocrite...
2/23/2012

Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...

...This is GSDCM - we all know how to handle little girl bullies around here. But oh, "It's not funny"? Please, princess. Don't cry on us now. That's just embarrassing.

 

Speaking of the devil, your criminal cult leading handler Enyart needs to give you girls a new script, because it's obvious none of you can come up with an original thought, especially you. From "paranoid" to "mentally ill," it's been played out like your "Weakass Whorled View" that no one pays any attention to, either. And unlike your criminal *pastor* who's a convicted child-abuser with an affinity for hookers and secretly meeting other men's wives to encourage divorce, we've been exonerated of all the libel, slander and falsely reported allegations against us - no thanks to you and the Apathy which is Denver Bible Cult.

 

You know what libel is, don't you, Mcmouth? It kinda sounds like you and Enyart on his failing radio program, multiple times, talking about "Why Marijuana Should Be Illegal" (http://kgov.com/pot) in between more *dugh* episodes about soft tissue, fishy tales and Tebow. Remember? I bet you do. At the time, it sounded pretty *funny* the way y'all were laughing at each other's jokes. What? You don't agree? Don't think I'm being "civil" enough for your sensitive self? Don't worry, I'll be civil; that's what the courts are for. Is it still *funny*? You betcha.

 

You don't understand this, (though you should) but eventually, your handler Enyart will *throw you under the bus* WHEN things become even hotter for him and you’re no longer useful. It’s coming, so I can't expect he'd give you any new marching orders about "mental illness" any time soon. Heck, he can't even help himself, that charlatan is paralyzed scared. And I know YOU'RE incapable of anything original because YOU'RE a cultist, so I'll help you out *BRO*: A pervert who likes prostitutes, abuses his girlfriend's son because he won't bathe for *daddy* and then lies about the details and remains unrepentant for his crimes = MENTALLY ILL. You know what also causes mental illness, Mcfly? Crystal meth causes mental illness. Know anything about hittin' the ICE, Mcfly? I don't. Hello? Mcfly? Anyone? I asked you a question. EARTH TO MCFLY? EARTH TO MCFLY?!...

2/23/2012

Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...

I may be a little behind the times, but I don't think Colorado offers Medicinal Methamphetamine Cards, eh Mcfly? And please don't go and start lying to cover that up like you lied about some non-existent phone call that you never made to us. I'd rather you'd cry some more before you go lying, again, like nobody knows about your little *not so* secret. Yup, the walls have BIG ears, Mcnutt, but even worse for you and the other hypocrites, the walls have just as many fat mouths with hot heads like yours in that FAILED rumor-mill cult you call a *church.* And, Mcfly, you would've realized it was an email you sent (not a phone call) if you hadn't already been "on the road" for several days tweakin'.

 

Betcha didn't know that James Craddock doesn't know my family any better than you after ten years. Yet somehow, it was easy for him and his wife to "vouch" for our family with a reference letter without wanting more info that no one, especially you, was entitled to. But you, Mcfly, along with your criminal *pastor* and rest of the Impotence (the elders) who also let it "fall through the cracks" because they were “waiting for the smoke to clear," just fell for the trap of not writing reference letters, altogether. All too easy, still. And like I said: "Mcnugget's one of those 'losers' who didn't provide a character reference letter for CPS when it was requested, same with Enyart and Duffy, Enyart's favorite soft tissue catamite. Mcnugget wanted to debate the issue, instead, as if he was someone important." Guess Craddock and the dozen-or-so others (now mostly *former* members) from your cult who ALSO provided references for us didn't think they were as important as you, Mcswelled-head.

 

But don't worry, you're still Enyart's 2nd favorite soft tissue catamite. Put that feather in your cap; another penny for your light loafers. I just wanted to make that clear to you since it's clear to us. We all know you've aspired to be in that top position for a number of years now, like how you've aspired to be a "has been" in Enyart's uber-fading shadow. Great job for a man your age, for real.

 

Don't cry, it's still funny. Ha ha and boo hoo. Chicken Mcnugget can't take his own "medicine," can he? His ego FAILED, like his daddy Enyart's ego last August when I rebuked him for undermining marriages in front of *elder* Gordon Carroll, another useless cultist who lives in fear of Enyart. Don't know anything about that, huh? They do. God-forbid you ask about it and start thinking for yourself. Yeah, you don't know much about anything, but you can certainly mouth-off like a moron without self-control. That's obvious.

 

Now hear this: Get lost, punk. No one likes you, even Enyart, because you’re a bully who likes to pick on other men’s wives. But you already knew that. Now, it's just more *solid* in that big head, way more solid than you learning that "it's not funny" going after other men's wives. How's that lesson going for you, anyway, McNuggy? Wait, I don't care because I already know; it’s not going well for you at all.

 

For real, go and do yourself a favor, cut your losses, follow your girlfriend's lead and FINALLY "Take [that] walk, princess, before your feelings get hurt....again." You don’t want more; we all know you don’t want more. I don't wanna make Denver Bible Cult’s favorite red-headed stepchild any *redder* than he already is - some people may think "it's not funny." Know what I mean, Mc? But you're a fool and will probably continue to pop-off at the mouth like a fool. Forget reference letters; we can certainly count on you to mouth-off in another tantrum. Right, boy?..

2/23/2012

 Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...
And unlike your two-face, I don't "veil" much of anything. I certainly don't hide behind or take orders from another man like you do with Enyart while pretending to be “my own man.” Weak.

So, for the hundredth time, GO AWAY, and stop acting like an obsessed boyfriend, already. Stalking is not only a crime in Colorado, it's sissy and that’s worse. You've been ditched along with Denver Bible Cult. Fill out a hurt feelings report and deal with it. Bye.

2/23/2012

Curtis Kekoa III said...

If you aren't entertained, then you're one of the retarded cultists. Little girls. Altar boys. Impotence. Perpetual adolescents.

2/24/2012

Government Schools Destroy Children's Minds said...

‎*In case you missed it....someone gets put in his place after mouthing off for the last time with this comment: "I called you to discuss CPS. You didn't call back. How can you expect me to write a character reference when you refuse to communicate? Besides, I didn't know what was going on in your home, and would not vouch for you. And apparently that was the wise choice, 'cause you're obviously mentally ill or deranged, or on more than just a little weed. And stop with the veiled threats Curtis, it's not funny, and I'm not some liberal puke that you can push around. I'll only warn you this once to cut it out and be civil."
*ROTFLMAO* - Or What???

My Response: That's putting someone into their place? Are we in homeschool time-out? Seriously Curtis, you shouldn't be pointing out your inabilities in public like this.